Of the over 1,000 LGBTQ+ adults surveyed by the dating app Taimi, only 23% said that mainstream Pride events accurately reflect their experiences. As Taimi put it, this startling statistic suggests that “A growing number of LGBTQ+ people are starting to feel disconnected from the version of Pride being sold back to them.”

“Sold” is the operative word here. Taimi app found that many community members still value Pride’s mission of visibility and celebration, but increasingly view modern Pride events as overly commercialized, not to mention disconnected from the realities LGBTQ+ people face today.

As always, capitalism really does seem to be the root of all evil: Pride Month has gone from a social movement to a business opportunity, with some companies giving the bare minimum to show support.

Pride Month has gone from a social movement to a business opportunity, with some companies giving the bare minimum to show support.

I’m talking specifically about stores that sell rainbow-covered tee-shirts but discriminate against LGBTQ+ employees behind the scenes; Pride events that exclude certain identities; LGBTQ+ community members feeling pressured to celebrate Pride despite growing political, economic, and social uncertainty.

I know — this is kind of a buzzkill. But these complicated feelings are just as valid during Pride Month as they are the rest of the year. At its core, Pride Month is about celebrating the LGBTQ+ community’s freedom to exist, but it’s also about its freedom to grow and change. 

And community members are telling Taimi that the Pride Month they once knew has in some ways become a plasticized version of itself — something bright and shiny that’s sold for a limited time only. 

Has Pride Become Commercialized and “Meaningless”?

Who could’ve predicted Meg Stalter’s “Hi gay!” video would become a defining statement on the commercialization of Pride?

Thirty-two percent of Taimi respondents still genuinely enjoy celebrating Pride, but the disillusionment Taimi noted is starting to spread. Thirty-three percent say they now prefer celebrating Pride privately, and 37% said that Pride has become “a commercial event that’s lost its meaning.”

Appealing to the LGBTQ+ community solely to sell sunglasses and tee-shirts is to be expected of American corporations, but that doesn’t make it feel any less slimy, especially when these corporations become the Pride equivalent of a groundhog: They celebrate LGBTQ+ identities for 15 minutes and then disappear again for 11 months.

Source: Taimi

0% Respondents who said Pride has become “a commercial event that’s lost its meaning”

Target, once known (and gently mocked) for its a-rainbow-threw-up-in-here Pride section, scaled back its LGBTQ+ merch in recent years, reportedly due to pressure from right-wing political groups. In early 2025, it rolled back its DEI initiatives completely, along with McDonald’s and Walmart. 

As industry leaders, stores like Target and Walmart play a vital role in shaping trends and signifying what the “average” American consumer is looking for from their retailers.

So when these corporations roll back their support for the LGBTQ+ community, it sends a message: LGBTQ+ visibility is welcome when it's profitable, but expendable when it becomes controversial.

Those 37% of respondents who think Pride has become too commercialized reflect a growing number of LGBTQ+ community members who get more out of small, intimate, intentional, and authentic gatherings than huge, corporate-sponsored, rainbow-hued Pride celebrations. 

Brand-Sponsored Pride Events Are Increasingly Controversial 

Taimi’s research makes it clear that there’s a line between corporate allyship and corporate exploitation, and when this line is crossed, it affects how LGBTQ+ daters feel in these spaces. Perhaps Taimi said it best: 

“The research showed corporate branding is not just changing how people feel about companies. It is also changing how people feel inside Pride spaces themselves,” Taimi explained in its report.

Although 34% said that brand-sponsored Pride events have no effect on their love lives, and 16% said they have a positive effect due to visibility, the other half of respondents were less convinced. 

23% of LGBTQ+ daters said they “don’t trust spaces that are brand sponsored,” and 19% said brand-sponsored spaces make them “uncomfortable” because “it feels performative.”

Twenty-three percent of LGBTQ+ daters said they “don’t trust spaces that are brand sponsored,” and 19% said brand-sponsored spaces make them “uncomfortable” because “it feels performative.” And 9% said they “actively avoid brands or venues doing Pride campaigns.” 

These stats make it clear that a growing demographic sees mainstream Pride as a candy-coated celebration of something that no longer exists: Inclusivity and unconditional support for all identities within the LGBTQ+ community. 

Real Allyship Goes Deeper Than Rainbows

A company’s inauthentic attempts to appeal to LGBTQ+ consumers is only part of the problem. Pride merch, one of the most visible aspects of Pride Month, has become a cultural signal of whether a company's allyship is genuine or simply another marketing strategy.

It’s disappointing when the most culturally insightful representation of LGBTQ+ Pride a billion dollar company can come up with is a rainbow-covered tank top. I doubt this is the queer art Megami wanted us to protect (if you know, you know). 

Remember Target’s vibrant Pride section of years past? For as surface-level and cringy as some people found the rainbow products to be, there were other products of genuine value — the “tuck friendly” swimsuits for trans people, for instance. 

"[LGBTQ+ people] still want joy, visibility, flirting, connection, and community. They just want it to feel real again." -Taimi

This product had the potential to spark truly productive conversations and connections, if only Target hadn’t pulled the swimsuits from shelves after right-wing backlash. Corporations can’t seem to decide whether they want to support LGBTQ+ consumers, and their noncommittal attitude only leaves a community of paying customers feeling isolated. 

Taimi’s research sheds light on the growing number of LGBTQ+ people seeking more nuanced, educated, and insightful corporate support. A rainbow sticker isn’t going to cut it anymore. 

When brands and corporations are committed to visibility supporting LGBTQ+ identities, and make this commitment clear with intentional merch, those corporations are more likely to be welcomed into LGBTQ+ spaces — including Pride. 

"LGBTQ+ people are not done with Pride," Taimi said. "They still want joy, visibility, flirting, connection, and community. They just want it to feel real again."