The Scoop: It’s a misconception that everyone prefers well-endowed men. In fact, sex can be painful for some when a penis is too large. While a lot of locker room talk can marginalize men and make them feel inadequate, plenty of people prefer men who are smaller than average size. Dinky One is a dating site that caters to those men and helps them overcome the stigma of size to find compatible partners. It’s also important to note that the platform is open to men, women, and transgender individuals of any sexuality.

Locker room jokes and porn films have contributed to the myth that most people prefer a well-endowed man when it comes to penis size. But that is not the reality for everyone.

Plenty of women and men experience physical pain if their partner is too large. That’s why many people prefer someone with a smaller penis.

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Dinky One connects modestly endowed men with people who appreciate them

Penis size is a topic that can be surrounded by a lot of shame and confusion. Some partners may not even want someone with an average size penis, which, according to, is 3.6 inches long when flaccid. That could still be considered too large for some daters.

That’s why the dating site Dinky One takes the pressure off modestly endowed men by helping them find singles who desire men with smaller penises. By removing the stigma upfront, Dinky One allows its members to move past what is holding them back from finding love and date more authentically.

Doctors have confirmed that size has nothing to do with stamina or fertility and that larger penises can actually lead to more health concerns and discomfort in certain sexual positions.

Some men with big penises may rely on their size alone to satisfy their partner instead of mastering some creative and rewarding maneuvers to please their lovers.

Talking about sexuality, and body part size, may be considered taboo in modern society, but Dinky One allows daters to connect in a more refreshing, honest way.

Designed for Men with a Smaller-Than-Average Penis

Many men suffer from anxiety about penis size, but so do some women. That’s also the case with some transgender individuals and people of non-binary genders.

The average erect penis is a little over five inches long, but a significant percentage of the world’s population is on the smaller side. While some of those men may exaggerate their reality, smaller penises are relatively common.

But it can also be hard to know what size a potential partner prefers. The topic is unlikely to be discussed on a first date. However, other things that attract partners can be more obvious. Maybe a woman likes short guys or muscular guys, and can easily find someone who fits that type. But only once a couple starts to get intimate do they start to find out if they are compatible on another important level.

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Dinky One allows singles to find compatible partners from anywhere.

Dinky One helps users skip past that concern through transparency. Because the site is designed for a particular niche, it means fewer awkward moments in the bedroom. Everyone understands and appreciates other members, and some find that transparency sexy.

Both men and women are too often critical of their bodies. And penis size can be a difficult subject to bring up at any point in a relationship because of the misunderstanding and shame associated with it. On dating sites, that can impact confidence, which makes it even harder to find a partner.

A Dinky One profile may be the solution to that problem.

Creating a Profile is Easy, Fast, and Secure

Dinky One welcomes all genders, including men, women, and members of the transgender community. Many sexual preferences and orientations are also represented on the site, and users can choose from any combination they prefer when setting up a profile.

Joining is fast and free, and users only need an email address to get started. The site asks for an age, but not a birthdate. That helps ensure the process is safe and more secure for all users.

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Singles of all genders and sexual preferences are welcome on the Dinky One platform

In addition to their location, age, gender, and sexuality, members can include up to nine pictures in their profile, along with a description of themselves and their personal interests. If privacy is a concern, users can even crop their faces out of pictures.

Dinky One has policies in place to ensure all members have an enjoyable experience, including a strict no-nudity photo policy. Any photos depicting users in the nude — or those that are overly sexual — will be rejected.

The platform is also available worldwide to daters of many different cultures and backgrounds. Once users make a profile, they can begin searching for partners. When they find someone who piques their interest, they can immediately click the “like” button to start a conversation.

Dinky One believes that privacy is essential when it comes to communication, and all messages will be erased after 30 days. Inactive profiles are also automatically removed. That helps combat catfishing and malicious members. The platform makes it easy to block other members, as well. The process is as simple as clicking a button, and users can make someone invisible and unable to contact them.

Dinky One: Members Enjoy Connecting on the Platform

Dinky One is available in both a desktop and a mobile version, so men with small penises, and those who enjoy them, can connect and chat comfortably. While users can join and send messages for free, upgrading to a premium version offers them access to the full suite of messaging tools.

The demographic for Dinky One membership breaks down to 74% men, 24% female, and 2% transgender. And members enjoy being a part of the modern online dating experience.

“I find sex painful with a man bigger than four inches, and in the past, have had to resort to oral but miss that close intimacy of sex,” wrote Z, who is 28 years old, in an online testimonial.” I can hardly ask a new potential partner when dating about their size, and that may be exaggerated anyway!”

T, who is 36, offered a male perspective — and gratitude for the dating site.

“When you’re a smaller man, dating is very complicated. A lot of my mates found their partners from friends of friends or via work. Imagine the situation when one of these relationships fails, she’s likely to mention my size to her friends and then gossip spreads!” he wrote. “It’s therefore far better to date online with strangers and even better on a dedicated site such as Dinky One as everyone knows in advance.”

Dinky One Founder David Minns said the site allows people to continue dating without worrying.

“Some men are big, some average and some below average,” he said. “Dinky One lets smaller men date people outside their circle of friends with the safety that everyone using the site is fully aware.”

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