The Scoop: When Sami Wunder made love a priority in her life, she found both her life partner and her path to happiness. She realized she could make a difference by teaching women how to navigate dating and cultivate lasting relationships. So she left her lucrative career as a consultant and launched a dating coaching business for commitment-oriented single women. “I decided to be darn brave and believe in my talent and my gift,” she said. Her faith in herself paid off. Today, Sami’s one-on-one coaching and self-study programs have led to over 109 engagements. She has developed and trademarked a six-step system to finding, attracting, and keeping a good man, and she has established herself as a leading love expert in the UK and around the world.

Modern love coach Sami Wunder didn’t always have a handle on how love works. At one point in her life, she couldn’t have felt more lost in the dating scene. She was 21, living in Berlin, and knew that she wanted a family one day — but she had not idea how to get there. Every time she went on a date, the relationship would fizzle out.

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Sami Wunder has mentored CEOs, celebrities, entrepreneurs, and divas around the world.

“Even with all my ambitions,” she said, “I didn’t want to ignore this aspect of life. But I just had no clue how to navigate dating.”

Then she fell in love with a man after dating for two months. Sami was used to good things happening in her life, so she thought this must be it — this was the one that would stick. But it wasn’t meant to be. The man told her he couldn’t give her the life she wanted.

Sami said that moment was a turning point for her. She decided to put her nose to the grindstone and figure out what was going wrong and how to make it go right. In short, Sami tackled this problem in the same way she tackled her schoolwork: she hit the books. She studied the dating scene and learned from others how to achieve the success she so desired.

“I dove in,” she recalled. “I had to figure it out. And figure it out I did. I attracted and married my husband, Chris, within nine months.”

In just a few months, Sami went from sitting with her friends complaining about men to being the girl who made it happen. The girl they sought for love advice.

That was about eight years ago. Now Sami developed a master plan to help other single women replicate her success. She has become a noteworthy love mentor in the UK with a global influence and empowering message. In the last two years, she has been responsible for facilitating over 100 engagements (109, to be exact), and yet this fiercely successful dating coach is just getting started.

A Six-Step Multi-Pronged Approach to Finding Love

In the last few years, Sami Wunder has designed a methodical system to help high-achieving and high-value women who have chosen to make  finding love a priority in life. She has compiled her knowledge on dating, attraction, interpersonal relationships, and gender dynamics to create a tried-and-true blueprint to finding and keeping a soul mate.

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Sami’s simple six-step system to find love has worked for women of all ages.

Her self-study program has been widely popular in the US, the UK, Canada, and other English-speaking countries. Her straightforward six-step process has helped many successful and gifted women — including CEOs, lawyers, and entrepreneurs — navigate the dating scene and achieve their relationship goals. She gives them the clarity they need to move forward.

“The fundamental message of my coaching work is to embrace feminine energy in relationships,” Sami said. “It’s a multi-pronged approach to get women in the right mindset.”

The first step is even called Energy and Mindset. This module tackles the false beliefs that create negative dating patterns. If you believe all men are cheaters, for instance, that’s the type of guy you’ll attract. Sami works hard to open women’s minds and hearts and allow them to see dating from an entirely new perspective.

The next step is called Self-Love, and it deals with the ever-important relationship a client has with herself. Does she value herself? Does she set boundaries in the dating scene that reflect that value? “The relationship you have with yourself is the foundation of your romantic relationships,” Sami said.

The third step addresses Intimacy Fears, ensuring that women are emotionally ready for a relationship. Sometimes smart, accomplished women don’t know how to receive love because they don’t feel worthy of it. Sami shines a light on these issues and encourages women to look at themselves and their dating patterns from an objective point of view.

“My system is about being able to receive love when it shows up at your door and feeling worthy inside to receive it.” — Sami Wunder, modern love coach

Next, Sami tackles the Dynamics of Attraction. Typically, this step involves enlightening women on how cultivating feminine energy in a relationship can help them draw and satisfy a masculine partner. Sami argues that a relationship won’t work if it’s a power struggle, and women who want a man to be in control logically must give up their control.

The fifth step in her process is a bit controversial. Rotational Dating means women date multiple men until they get a wedding ring. Exclusive dating, in Sami’s opinion, is just wasting precious time. It’s not about sleeping around — it’s about getting to know multiple potential husbands. Until you have a solid commitment from one of them, you owe it to yourself to keep your options open.

Finally, the Understanding Men step emphasizes the differences between how men and women view commitment. “You have to understand the differences in our experiences,” she said. “You need to respect that in order to create a happy, holistic relationship.”

Retreats Offer Driven Women a Week of Bliss

Sami caters to a high-end crowd of singles, and she relates to their struggles and stresses. She has made it her mission to ease their burdens and help them find the happiness they so richly deserve. Recently, she has endeavored to do that by taking them on exotic vacations.

Women can go on a luxury retreat with love coach Sami Wunder as their personal guide. The retreats have carried women away to Spain, Greece, and Malta, and now they’re going to Costa Rica.

The Be the Woman Men Cherish retreat is set for January 2019 in Costa Rica. It will take place in a luxurious five-star resort. Relationship guru Bob Grant will join the group for an afternoon to give an intensive session on understanding men in romantic relationships. The five-day, all-inclusive trip pampers and instructs women at the same time.

Sami said her retreats are perfect for single women who need to recharge their batteries. They go through personalized coaching programs during the day and then on sightseeing excursions at night. Sami mingles with attendees and gets to know them on a personal level over drinks, dinner, and other activities. The group atmosphere adds to the fun. Women on the retreat have the chance to relax together and learn from one another’s experiences.

“My retreats are an expression of my inspiration as a love coach,” she said. “There’s something about seeing your clients in person and experiencing their energy. It’s transformational.”

Sami also hosts group coaching events closer to home. She has a love seminar coming up in September in London and has plans to promote her advice on a larger stage so daters throughout the UK can benefit from her advice. “It’s important to spread my message far and wide,” she said. “I’d like the women of the world to have access to good advice that can change their lives.”

Providing a Loving Yet Firm Support System

Each year, Sami hears from former clients who have gotten engaged, married, or started families thanks to her advice. Her testimonials are full of praise for her hands-on coaching style.

Sami said she’s loving yet firm with her clients. She isn’t afraid to tell them honestly what traits, habits, or mistakes are holding them back. It’s her job to remove all obstacles in the search for love, and sometimes the client’s mindset or false beliefs are the biggest hurdle to overcome.

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Tanya is happily married and gives Sami credit for helping her find the right man.

Tanya, an Australian woman, called Sami her “guardian angel” for guiding her to marry the man of her dreams. “Noboby can change the fact that it was Sami who made it happen,” she said. “Her enthusiasm, her perseverance, her ceaseless passion actually made wonders happen in my life.”

One single woman named Kelly was approaching her 40th birthday when she joined Sami’s Inner Circle. This was a make-it-or-break-it moment. Kelly wanted to be married. In fact, she wanted children, but she didn’t believe having a family was possible for her anymore because of her age.

Within a year of working with the dating coach, everything changed for this single woman. She not only got married, but she also had her first child at 41 years old.

“That’s inspirational to me,” Sami said, “because she was about to give up on her dreams, and then it came true for her.”

Another woman named Lisette joined Sami’s program because the dating scene was wearing her down. She had a negative attitude about men, and about dating in general, and that bad energy was tripping her up in the dating scene. Sami had to open her eyes to the fact that all those bitter, angry, and sad feelings were standing in her way. Lisette took the feedback to heart, made an attitude adjustment, and now she’s engaged.

“As a coach, it’s not easy to give tough love, but you owe it to them to say something no one else will say to them,” she said. “Because the stakes are so high, and they need to hear it and really look at themselves in order to grow.”

Singles Invest in Sami & She Delivers the Goods

Sami started out unprepared and uncertain in the dating scene, but, through diligent study and inner work, she came into her own and attracted the love of her life. Now she is a happily married mother who hopes to pass along her insights to all womankind. She started her coaching business to impact lives, and she has made quite a splash in the industry with her straightforward and intelligent dating system.

“I do it because I love doing it,” she said. “It gives me strength and purpose.”

Single women looking for love turn to Sami for the answers to their dating questions. They want to know what they can do to make their dreams come true, and she lays out a step-by-step process to help them. The phenomenal success of her coaching business speaks to the efficacy of her advice. This dating coach has figured out how to manifest love, and she can help you do the same. Working with Sami is an investment in the future, and it often pays off for single women.

“Sometimes I still can’t completely grasp the power of what I’m doing,” she said. “Your life changes forever. When you marry the man of your dreams, you’re going to get a return on your investment for the rest of your life.”

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