Dating coaches play a special role in your dating journey. From healing heartbreak to creating a stellar dating game plan, the way coaches help you places them in a super influential position. You’re going to them for wisdom, advice, and insights to help you navigate a very important part of your life– your relationships.
So you better be sure you’re going to the right coach. A great dating coach is going to understand your experiences, your goals, your strengths, and your blindspots. They’re going to need to be able to understand your perspective in love and life.
That means there’s no room for outdated, offensive, and sexist dating guidance. You need a coach who understands your search for a partner will never include changing who you are merely for the sake of men’s validation— or attention.
These coaches bring their diverse personal and professional experiences to the table to help you create and embrace an empowered dating experience.
Date Brazen
Date Brazen, AKA Lily Womble, is an unconventional dating coach who understands what it’s like to be a woman labeled “too much.”
Lily was raised in Birmingham, Alabama, surrounded by a culture that sent plenty of negative messaging to young women, specifically regarding finding a partner and getting married.
Throughout her career, Lily’s goal has been to improve the well-being of women, and she follows wherever that takes her. As a coach, she’s focused on helping you learn how to be the best version of yourself that you can. Lily wants you to be “bold as hell” in your pursuit of extraordinary love.
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Robin Clark
Robin Clark is a coach for women who are ready to break free from the patriarchy. Robin’s coaching and courses are designed for women who want to speak their truth, be their own source of validation, and access their power from within.
Many women have been told stories about who they are since they were little.
Robin wants to help you break free from that conditioning. She helps clients challenge the status quo within them and in the culture around them, and replace it in their hearts with something deeper and more meaningful. Robin shows you how to ditch sexist gender roles and find freedom.
Irini Georgi
Irini Georgi is a feminist and dating consultant. The way she sees it, the world has changed and many men are still playing catch up. Irini works with women and helps her clients discover how to find men who view and treat them as equals, along with the red flags to look out for.
Irini guides her clients as they explore the aspects of flirting and dating that may feel uncomfortable. Many women have conflicting expectations and experiences with men.
Irini does more than create a dating strategy. She digs into the way you view yourself and the men you date and helps you dismantle internalized patriarchal systems.
Kelsey Wonderlin
Kelsey Wonderlin is a Licensed Therapist and dating coach who specializes in helping women find the kind of partner they’ll want to spend their lives with.
Kelsey became a coach after her own struggles with attracting the right men, grappling with self-love, and maintaining healthy relationships. She learned the skills and wisdom she now brings to women every time she coaches.
She draws on her education and experience as a therapist to create courses and guide women through their own dating journey. Kelsey helps clients build confidence, date strategically, and meet men who actually get them excited.
Rachel Simeone
Rachel Simeone shows you how to avoid the drama, end the single struggle, and find the relationship you deserve. Rachel is a dating and relationship coach who helps you find a healthy, happy, and “normal” guy to date or marry.
She knows how confusing online dating can be, especially if you’ve been out of the dating scene for a while. Rachel was in your position after the end of her relationship and giving dating apps a try in her 40s.
After some trial and error, Rachel realized she had to bring the business acumen that had gotten her so far in her professional career to her dating life. She got clear on what and who she wanted and then started finding it. Rachel shows her clients how to avoid the misery of the wrong man and step into a dating experience that focuses on what’s important to them.
Martha Bodyfelt
Martha Bodyfelt is the dating coach for grown-up women who are ready for their next steps. She knows there’s no guidebook for how to date in your 40s, 50s, and 60s, and many women feel lost in the sea of apps and sites.
She was once a financially successful, emotionally available, fun, and adventurous single person who just couldn’t find a guy who was all those things too.
Martha helps her clients tackle their fear or uncertainty when it comes to dating and dive head first into the journey. She focuses on giving you the skills you need to date with integrity, clarity, and a trustworthy red flag alert system. With Martha, you can find a love that will make you feel both held and free.
Melanie Hersch
Melanie Hersch is the dating and relationship coach who helps soulful, kick-ass women get the love they want. Melanie is also a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who brings her diverse collection of experience and education to the table. She helps wonderful women who know just how much they have to offer but haven’t found the right person to give it to.
Melanie knows what it’s like to struggle in the dating scene– she’s been there. But she also knows what it takes to get out of it.
Melanie helps her clients unwind and decode the dynamics they have with men, and why the same dynamics keep appearing. More than anything, Melanie is focused on your personal growth and evolution, not if you get a date.
Damona Hoffman
Damona Hoffman wants you to step into your authentic self and find authentic love. Damona is a Certified Dating Coach, speaker, and media personality who helps singles master the art of online dating.
She teaches her clients to celebrate their unique experiences and personal story as part of what makes them wonderful, rather than something they need to change.
Damona’s tagline of “Love as you are” speaks for itself. She doesn’t think the path to love should include compromising your individuality or conforming just for the sake of conforming. Instead, it’s all about discovering who you are and bringing that fullness into the light.
Modern Meet
Modern Meet was created by Sara Tick, a feminist dating and relationship coach who knows that dating isn’t the same as it was 20 years ago. And good! Sara works predominantly with male clients who are looking for a more personal and less isolating dating experience.
Sara understands the constructed nature of gender norms and the various problems that lie deep within how we view gender, especially when it comes to heterosexual relationships.
She shows her clients that cultural expectations of masculinity hurt them, too, and teaches them there is no “right way” to be a man. Patriarchal attitudes negatively impact women and men. Sara helps her clients construct lives and relationships that are uplifted from the constraints of sexism.
Jessica Elizabeth Opert
Jessica Elizabeth Opert is a Certified Love and Relationship coach for anyone seeking evolved, modern, and thriving relationships. Jessica helps individuals and couples embrace relationships where they feel equally free and secure.
Many modern couples, especially heterosexual couples, have to grapple with their views of gender and the roles they bring to the table.
Jessica guides you through it with humor, grace, and plenty of flexibility. If you’re going to Jessica for help in your search for love, she’ll show you how to create (not wait for!) the dating journey you’ve been dreaming of. With Jessica, there’s no more waiting– it’s time for living.
Sexist Dating Advice Has No Place Here
We hammer home the importance of choosing the right dating coach. So many factors influence this decision, from technical ones such as where you live to the more emotional ones, like what you’re looking for from a relationship.
Out of all the factors, one is most important: trust. You should trust your coach with your feelings, fears, past experiences, and future hopes. You should be able to tell them what really gets you going, and what really gets you down.
Like most things in life, the relationship you have with your coach is going to be what makes the difference in your love life. Choose a coach who values you– your dreams, your hopes, and your outlook.
