The Scoop: At age 26, Bryan Reeves needed a change. He was a captain in the US Air Force, but he wasn’t happy with his life, so he left the military to see the world on his own dime. His travels took him from the Australian Outback to the Pyramids of Egypt, and he had a chance to explore his spirituality, learn what he was capable of, and cultivate a thriving marriage and a fulfilling career. In 2012, he decided to start a coaching business that would allow him to share his dating experience and relationship wisdom with men, women, and couples across the globe. Today, Bryan is known as a life and relationship insight ninja who runs many transformational programs, workshops, and webinars on the mysteries of human relationships.

When Bryan Reeves left the United States Air Force to travel the world, he didn’t know where his path would lead him. He backpacked through Europe, the Middle East, India, and Australia. He lived in France, where he fell into a whirlwind romance and marriage that lasted only eight months.

Finally, tired of being rootless and recovering from a broken heart, he came back to the US in search of a career and a real, lasting love. There was only one problem: He didn’t know what to do to find or maintain a good relationship.

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Bryan Reeves spent two years living abroad and learning about love.

“For most of my life, I was just winging it through relationships,” he told us. “A method which yields predictably terrible results.”

No one had ever taught Bryan how to foster love and intimacy with a partner, so he was lost and confused in the dating scene. Even while his career as an international spokesperson, event producer, and business manager took off, he struggled to feel content with his success because he didn’t have a partner to share in his journey.

However, he spent years working alongside many spiritual guides, mentors, and visionaries, including the Oracle of Tibet, and he learned from them how to build the inner strength he needed to change.

Bryan had to recognize his mistakes and overcome adversity to get where he is today. His persistence, optimism, and commitment to self-development led him in the right direction until he reached his ultimate goal. He is now happily in love and living in Los Angeles with his wife and Golden Retriever.

Thanks to his experiences, Bryan learned how to be the partner his partner needs, and now he has made it his business to teach men, women, and couples a better way to live and love. Since 2012, Bryan has offered his assistance as a noteworthy relationship insight ninja who teaches others the love lessons he had to figure out the hard way.

“I want others to benefit from what I’ve learned,” he said, “particularly now that I’m in an exquisite relationship with an extraordinary woman, and life is working in many of the ways I dreamed about forever.”

A 90-Day Program Takes Couples From Conflict to Connection

Relationship ignorance, as Bryan calls it, is pretty common in the dating scene because the average school curriculum skirts right past this important topic. Teachers make sure students understand geometry principles, but they neglect to teach attraction principles.

Bryan wants to fix that by offering do-it-yourself online courses on the ways of love and connection. He helps students understand how human relationships work and how to make them the best they can be. His flagship program, Conflict to Connection, takes couples through a 90-day program that will help them reinforce their relationship and lay their fears, doubts, and arguments aside.

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“Conflict to Connection” imparts valuable relationship insights that cultivate love and respect.

Bryan developed this program alongside his life partner and business partner Silvy Khoucasian, who is a celebrated marriage and family therapist.

“We designed it to help people learn how to create and maintain connection — even in the midst of conflict,” Bryan explained. “We know — from both personal experience and years of working with couples — that you can get through anything together when you know how to create real connection.”

It only takes a few seconds, Bryan told us, to show your partner you care and connect with him or her on a deeper level. The program offers step-by-step guidance and support for couples of all ages. Whether they’ve been dating a few months or been married a few decades, the Conflict to Connection course can help couples recover the spark in their relationships.

Using Facebook Live to Teach Men to Live Masterfully

Bryan coaches clients to become the best possible version of themselves by exploring their needs, goals, and emotional blocks. He dives into the psychology behind intimacy issues and focuses on doing the inner work to prepare his clients to change their lives.

In addition to his private coaching and online programs, Bryan has launched a new project called “Men, This Way,” to mentor the love-blocked men of the world. He has used his Facebook page to reach out to single men and inspire them in short, informational videos. He hosts a free Facebook Live broadcast every Tuesday at 6 p.m PST.

Bryan has over 82,000 followers on Facebook, so he sees tremendous potential in social media as a coaching tool. He told us he expects his Facebook Live series to only grow larger over time and create a library of useful resources for men hoping to master love and relationships.

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Bryan inspires men to grow into relationship masters by embracing who they are and what they want.

In addition to his live broadcasts, Bryan and Silvy offer free monthly webinars which have an average attendance of over 1,000 people. These webinars create a forum where Bryan can discuss common dating and relationship challenges and point potential clients to programs that can further help them develop their relationship-building skills. Every day, thousands of men and women in English-speaking countries around the world seek Bryan’s advice on his website and Facebook page.

“I’m just excited to stay focused on helping people overcome the real challenges they face in love and intimacy,” Bryan said. “I can’t imagine doing more satisfying work right now.”

Clients Thank Him for a Transformational Experience

Throughout his career, Bryan has received tremendously positive feedback from his clients. His reviews are overflowing with kind words and success stories. Over 60 people have left him a recommendation on Facebook, where he has an average review score of 4.9/5.0 stars.

“I can’t thank you enough for the work you do,” wrote Heather M. “I’ve followed a fair few coaches and read many many books on relationships, and the value and insights you both give is hard to beat. I’ve already had my mind blown several times!”

“Bryan is an amazing coach and a remarkable human being.” — Bonnie Knoth, a former client

“You two have something special,” said Anne S., who said Bryan and Silvy’s coaching opened her eyes to how real relationships work.  “You both have a great way of getting things over and clarifying things.”

“Thank you for this program. I’m amazed at how much content I’m getting. It’s beautiful,” said Sandy S., who took the Boundaries Program and learned to set high standards for her potential partners. “Just a few short weeks, and I can see massive change.”

“I can’t thank you enough for the work you do…I’ve already had my mind blown!” — Heather M., a former client

“I am so thankful for the program thus far,” wrote Mary C. in a glowing review. “I am finding myself loving and appreciating Dave more than ever. I have been appreciative of boundaries and all of the amazing perspectives I’ve gained.”

Many clients say working with Bryan helped them gain clarity in the dating scene and tackle relationship issues with renewed spirit and sound insight. Helping people bring more love into the world has been his ultimate mission, and he has been remarkably successful in the last few years.

Bryan Reeves Has a Deep Understanding of Love

After years of introspection and self-improvement, Bryan ended up in the loving relationship of his dreams. He has traveled the world in search of enlightenment and eventually found his calling as an inspirational life and relationship coach.

Today, Bryan is on a mission to awaken his clients to what’s going on beneath the surface and what they can do to change their lives. He told us he wants to make singles and couples more conscious of their actions, beliefs, and patterns in the dating scene, so they can create the love they desire and deserve.

“I want people to know that creating better love always begins on the inside, which then gets reflected on the outside,” Bryan said. “Without that understanding, we’re destined to keep playing out the same old storyline of falling in love to flailing in despair.”

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