The Scoop: When it comes to finding and keeping the man of their dreams, women often want all the tips they can get. It doesn’t seem easy — but it can be with the right mindset. Helena Hart, a Certified Life and Relationship Coach with a Masters Degree in Psychology, encourages women to believe in love and attract and keep a good partner by embracing their feminine energy. This relationship expert creates YouTube videos that explain feminine energy, the law of attraction, the power of self-esteem, and the signs to look for in a healthy relationship. Along with publishing weekly videos, Helena offers self-help books to share the lessons she has learned about love, dating, and relationships.
Helena Hart has made a career out of helping women learn how to attract and keep the right partner for their life.
She has a background in psychology and shares many useful insights through her YouTube channel, which has about 135,000 subscribers.
For example, Helena recently outlined the five secrets to attracting an ideal partner. The first step, she said, was simply believing that this person even exists. Some women become trapped in the false belief that all men are cheaters or liars, or maybe all the good men are already taken.
The next step has to do with belief. Women have to believe they are enough and deserving of an amazing relationship. Once that piece of the puzzle is in place, women can then focus on going after what they want and set standards for their next partner. That may mean creating a list of dealmakers and dealbreakers.
The fourth secret deals with how women want to feel in their ideal relationship. This is a feminine energy concept. Helena explained the precepts of this concept have to do with the need for women to feel loved, protected, and cared for.
Lastly, Helena said women should expect good things to happen to them when it comes to their relationships.
“You get what you expect, 100 % of the time,” she said. “Your desire for a great relationship can merge with your beliefs about whether or not it’s possible or if you deserve it. That can shift the experiences you attract in your love life.”
Strategies Based in Psychology and Personal Experience
Helena has always been interested in helping women live their best lives and thrive in meaningful and fulfilling relationships.
“I talk a lot about feminine energy and the law of attraction, and that’s what I’m most known for in my work in dating and relationships,” she said. “That was only because of my own love life and the struggles that I went through.”
Helena used to work with clients in private sessions, but now she has focused her energy on reaching more people through her YouTube channel. She posts videos that discuss many pressing issues for women in the dating world. After vlogging for years, Helena sees hundreds of thousands of views on her most popular videos.
“It’s helping women be able to coach themselves,” she said. “I’ve worked with hundreds of women to be able to take those tools and apply them to their own life.”
She also offers dozens of e-books and online programs, including “Attract the Man You Want.” In the book, she explains the difference between attraction-builders and attraction-killers, so women can see how shifting the story of their lives can work wonders in a relationship.
Helena’s target audience is women who want to learn how to change their negative patterns and get better results in the dating world, as well as women who are in relationships or married and want to turn things around and bring their partner closer than ever. Her viewers range in age from 20-something to 70-something.
“Everything they’ve tried so far has pushed the man and love they want further away,” she said. “I give them something that works, and it works pretty quickly, too.”
Feminine Energy Helps Attract Quality Men
Through her instructive video series, Helena breaks down the essential elements of attraction, and feminine energy plays a major role in that discussion. She told us that feminine energy means being able to acknowledge and express emotions with authenticity.
“A lot of women who come to me are stuck in that masculine energy: the doing, pushing, striving, making something happen,” she said. “That works great in other areas of their life — like working, tackling their ‘to-do’ list, accomplishing goals, and getting things done. But then they take masculine energy and turn it toward a man, and it’s not good for a dating relationship.”
Helena told us that women who bring masculine energy to their relationships can wind up with men who are avoidant, uninterested, or cold-hearted. These women may try to change the situation by being more aggressive and pushy, and that only deepens the divide.
Fortunately, women can support one another and reconnect with their feminine sides through the Magnetic Membership Circle powered by Helena and another dating coach named Chelsea Rose. This long-term group coaching program has taken on a life of its own and created a community of sisterhood online.
Helena began private coaching work in 2013, but she has since pivoted to group coaching work because she can maximize her time by reaching many people at once.
She offers a private online forum called the Goddess Club. Memberships are on sale right now for $1, and memberships include access to trained dating and relationship coaches.
Helena told us her business achievements have led her to change her personal life in many ways. For example, she found the man of her dreams and recently got married. Looking to the future, Helena said she hopes to add a meditation element to her YouTube video channel and guide women to a happier and healthier state of being.
Helena Hart: Women Have Learned a Lot During the Pandemic
Despite the challenges of social distancing, the coronavirus pandemic hasn’t been a complete disaster for the dating world. Helena said she’s heard of so many couples who have found each other over the last year.
“If you have a desire for a great relationship, that desire is really powerful,” Helena said. “It’s more powerful than any story someone might tell themselves or some excuse they would make about why love isn’t meant for them or they can’t get what they want.”
Helena said a big takeaway for women has been that time is precious. Many women reemerged from lockdown with more determination and purpose, and now they feel empowered to create the life they want.
“Most people are creating by default, in that they look around to their present circumstances and create more of the same,” she said. “If I can help them flow their energy to something they actually want, it will get them out of the cycle of discouragement. Things are constantly changing and constantly evolving, but, for most people, they’re just evolving into more of the same. They don’t walk forward into the next moment and the next moment.”
Rather than let circumstances hold them back, women can take control and build better relationships by learning about the law of attraction and the importance of feminine energy.