The Scoop: Adam LoDolce has made a name for himself as a popular dating confidence coach who can help single women reclaim their sexy confidence. Adam has the resources and reputation to assist millions of singles across the country and around the world. And his success is evidenced by his massive YouTube following and glowing recommendations. He offers advice in free videos, step-by-step programs, and easy-to-read books, and now he has revamped his monthly membership program, aka the Sexy Confidence Club, to provide additional information and support to his online audience. This members-only forum will give women access to Adam’s dating and relationship insights for an affordable price. By spreading his message on a variety of mediums, Adam is set to grow his online following and become a positive influence on the modern dating scene.

Some dating coaches are quick to point out where their clients are going wrong. These are the issues. That’s the flaw. Here’s why you’re still single. They may do this with the best of intentions, but sometimes all that harsh feedback can make daters feel paralyzed, anxious, or just plain inept.

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Adam LoDolce made a splash in the dating industry with his bestselling book “Being Alone Sucks!”

Perhaps some dating professionals would say those negative feelings are necessary to begin positive changes, but Adam LoDolce doesn’t hold to that line of thinking. He got into the coaching business to build people up — not tear them down. He calls himself the Dating Confidence Coach because his goal is to make singles feel confident in themselves and their dating skills.

“I think far too many dating gurus and coaches out there take their messaging far too seriously,” he said. “It gives people anxiety and makes them nervous, so they’re unable to take action.”

Adam got his start in the dating industry in 2012, when he published a bitingly honest self-help book called “Being Alone Sucks!” In this tell-all book, he related his journey as a 20-something single man struggling to learn how to develop his social skills and master the dating scene. From his perspective, it all came down to confidence and persistence, and those are the values he passes along to singles from all walks of life.

Today, Adam has written several books, spoken at over 300 universities in the US, and maintained a popular YouTube channel with over 50 million views. His Sexy Confidence coaching brand reminds single women that they have everything they need to attract a great partner — they just need to believe in that ability and own who they are.

“The idea is really just to keep people actively engaged in their love life until they find what it is that they what,” Adam explained. “Once they find a relationship or the love that they really want, they get out of the program, and, ideally, they never come back.”

A Private Membership Program Provides In-Depth Support

Throughout his career, Adam has provided practical and positive dating tips for anyone struggling to get a date or keep a relationship strong. He launched about five years ago to support singles on their journey of self-empowerment with online coaching programs.

Now Adam has expanded the brand to include a monthly membership program that keeps pace with women’s progress in the dating scene. The Sexy Confidence Club offers women the chance to discuss their dating obstacles and support one another in a private forum. They can ask questions like “How do you know if  a guy likes you” or “When is it OK to follow-up after a date?” and receive thoughtful answers from their peers and from Adam, too.

The membership program costs $35 a month, or a little over a dollar a day, so it’s an affordable alternative to one-on-one coaching. At the same time, it offers more depth than his free YouTube videos because Adam posts follow-up advice videos and content to give members more information and tools.

“The Sexy Confidence Club is for people who want more tips and more strategies for their love lives,” he said.

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Adam founded Sexy Confidence to coach women on what they can do to get in a relationship.

So far the Sexy Confidence Club has collected many success stories from women who say it has helped them regain their footing in the modern dating world. “Adam always has something to offer no matter where one is in a relationship,” said Grace M. in a review of SexyConfidence. “I highly recommend tuning in to this man. He is true to his word.”

Adam told us that one of the most important dating skills he can instill in women is the confidence to be consistent and persistent as they experience the highs and lows of dating. By giving them a support group to hold them accountable, Adam hopes to see single women stick it out and stay optimistic even in the face of a letdown.

“The Sexy Confidence Club is a way to stay consistent and make love a priority in life,” he said. “It keeps it at the top of your mind.”

In the last few years, the Sexy Confidence Club has been a positive influence on members, and it has positively impacted Adam’s coaching style as well.

“It’s inspired me to reconnect with my audience and go much deeper with the women who are part of SexyConfidence,” he told us. “The feedback has been amazing so far, and I’m really happy with how it’s been going. We have countless relationships, marriages, children as a result of those marriages that have come from the Sexy Confidence Club in the last five years. Now, with this new revamp, I’m expecting great things.”

Releasing a Webinar to Support Women Over 40

Adam has cultivated a reputation for speaking candidly about dating issues, and his constructive advice has won him a diverse audience of women ranging from 25 to 65 years old. His insights are universal and resonate with millions of people throughout the world.

But Adam said he also sees the appeal of a more targeted approach to coaching. He estimated that single women over 40 make up over half his audience, and these mature women face different challenges then younger singles do. Adam wanted to speak to these challenges and offer specific solutions for a mature audience, so he started developing an online course for single women over 40.

“Love is much different for those who may not necessarily be looking to have kids or want to get married but want a companion,” he said.

The webinar will walk women through the steps for where to go and what to do to jumpstart their love lives. Adam’s optimistic point of view will bolster singles who feel hopeless and empower them to take action.

While Adam concentrates on the over-40 crowd in his new webinar, he also continues to speak to a broad and diverse audience on his YouTube channel, which sees over 1.4 million monthly views. He told us his confidence-building message can help any single looking for love, and his goal is simply to make sure he reaches as many eyes and ears as possible in the years to come.

Adam Informs & Empowers His Online Audience

Adam’s determination to focus on his client’s strengths rather than their weaknesses has distinguished him from other professionals in the industry. Instead of harping on what’s holding his clients back, he highlights opportunities to move forward and reframes mistakes as valuable learning experiences.

His positive outlook and encouraging coaching style has inspired many women to jump into the dating scene with dynamic, sexy confidence. Whether he’s giving advice in an online program, forum, or video, Adam has an easy affability and candor that wins people over to his message.

“My whole dating philosophy has always been to keep it fun and keep it light,” he said. “Even though it’s the most important decision that you’ll ever make in your life, it’s still supposed to be fun and enjoyable. And, if it’s not fun and enjoyable, chances are you’re not going to be attracting great people.”

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